Nguyên văn bởi vuongminhthy (Post 163046)

Ngại phải trình lên HR lắm TnC. Chẳng lẽ a man lại đi file sexual harrasment? lol.

But honestly, I feel like they are attacking me, coming after me like I'm a bet or something, just to see if they can, I don't know if this is the right word to use in this situation, what's the word I'm searching for, "chế phục"? Or "own" me?

Since there was this one time, I accenditally said, joking of course, "I'm only interested in Asian women". But now thinking about that comment, I was serious, I'm only interested in Asian women. Is that wrong?

I know I should not have said it in public. So that's was my mistake. Now they spread rumors about me being racist and all. What's more, they chasing me just to show that they can "change" my feelings towards American woman??? That's the situation at work. I'm like an object for them to win smh. That really lowers my self esteem, I'm a person, not a thing, sigh

And how am I being written up as unprofessional for ignoring someone who was sitting on top of my desk trying to ask me out? And texting me nonstop! Leo lên bàn của mình ngồi lì trên đó không chịu xuống, legs crossed, flirting/seducing left and right, nói chuyện gì đâu đâu chẳng chút liên quan đến công việc. thank god my door to my office was wide open, nếu không thì... words and more words to come, rumors after rumors, I don't even want to think about it. smh

Chưa có bị report là racist, chỉ mới bị đồn thôi, nhưng đã bị file report là unproffesional for ignoring a co worker's conversation, wtf, rồi bị label là mis conduct (according to the code of conduct). smh

rất muốn chuyển qua 2nd shift, ngặt nỗi không có ai chăm sóc Anna at night. sigh

I don't get it! Why me? out of all the men at work, why come after me? A man with a kid, I thought I would be off the market for having a kid. Don't women used to stay away from married men with children? Can they see my ring I'm wearing for goodness sake?


thanks TnC bro for your advices. You are right bro, I just have to watch myself, đừng để người ta collect enough evident để trình lên HR.

sigh, back to work.

Nguyên văn bởi T_n_C (Post 163049)

VMT, lets me tell you, á my position today, I had to passed a lot of bad behavor of people around me. And, 1 thing that's I know, ì you tô man kind to them, espacialy lady, they will turn back and again you. I dont meant to racist ỏ something else, but we asian, we ok with that's little thing. but to them American people they will not like us. That's why you better go with HR. Another way, when they sit on your desk, you may use some work like this: Jen/Stacy/jessica or whoever name, please dont sit on my Desk! or Please I need some quiet time to finish the work. just try it, if that's keep happen. I recomment you go to HR. because this happen too long you will be in trouble. :Shooting Soldier:
Good luck to you at work bro.

Nguyên văn bởi vuongminhthy (Post 163052)

đã nói với họ rất nhiều lần, nói rằng, please do not sit on my desk, please knock before you enter the room, please I need some quiet time to complete my data analysis. Please please, I'm not looking for a relationship right now. I'm married.

Finally, nothing work so I plugged my ears with the pieces and turned my Ipod on lol, that's when I got reported for mis conduct.

Vậy là phải trình lên HR hả TnC? Nhưng phải start the conversation như thế nào đây? Ngại quá. Làm vậy they will lose their faces, I feel so bad. Tội nghiệp quá bro. Mai mốt đi làm khó nhìn mặt nhau, especially at my work I have to work in team, interact with people during conferences all the time. And out side of work too. smh, sigh.

Có ai có ý kiến gì, please let me know. I need help. Cám ơn rất nhiều.

Nguyên văn bởi T_n_C (Post 163054)

Nguyên văn bởi TT_LưuLyTím_TT (Post 163065)

Tội nghiệp bé Anna !
Cho bé ăn cam và uống nước cam vắt nhiều chút cho mau khỏi bệnh nhé David !